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Regenerative Sexual Paradigm

Apr 23, 2020 | Misc

Regardless of our opinions concerning ‘intelligent design’ or evolution vs. involution of the human species, we are faced with many enigmatic questions about the miraculous workings of our bodies. For example, science is just beginning to recognize how our microbiomes...

The Hand Phallus Dalliance

Apr 6, 2019 | Misc

A devotee of the RPM(Rejuvenating Power of Masturbation) shared with me a most novel perspective about how the hand and phallus interact during autoerotic interludes. We often think as hands as manual laborers toiling tirelessly to satisfy the lustful appetites of our...

Ways to keep sex hot in a marriage

Dec 13, 2018 | From the Author

I responded to a reporter’s inquiry about ways to keep sex hot in a marriage…a chance to advocate for exploring solo sexuality as a meaningful complement/supplement to paired sex. I’m sure you will get responses to your inquiry that include fantasy, sex toys,...

Husband practices semen retention, should wife seek other source of semen?

Dec 13, 2018 | From the Author

I received a most interesting question from a man who steadfastly practices semen retention and was debating with his wife(he is open to the possibility) of having his wife source semen from another younger male. The answer below helped them resolve the issue by...

I received this question and I thought of the readership of the RPM Forum

Feb 16, 2018 | From the Author

“Are there benefits from not masturbating and abstaining from sex like masturbating without ejaculating?”Thank you for your question. Abstaining from sex and masturbating without ejaculating are quite different. In the former, there is an absence of solo or paired...

sexual exhaustion is not a wacko tea party conspiracy

Jan 7, 2018 | From the Author

OK, I get it. When it comes to sex, clergy and tea party wackos are not reliable sources of expert advice; nevertheless, the issue of sexual exhaustion deserves serious, open-minded consideration. If you don’t invest much credence either in millennia of Taoist and...

Sex and hair loss?

Aug 7, 2017 | Misc

I received an interesting question regarding sex-edging orgasms and accelerated hair loss. Here is some info from the web: There is a direct correlation between sexual activity and testosterone levels in the blood. However, the DHT and 5-alpha reductase levels have...

Ways to ratchet up sexual energy

Feb 27, 2017 | From the Author

There are those times every month when I get hot flashes. I’m not talking about those uncomfortable body temperature spikes often attributable to menopause which I, as a sexagenarian, fortunately do not experience. No, in this case I’m referring to feeling downright...

Sexual satisfaction and pleasure: different bedfellows?

Oct 16, 2016 | From the Author

Fabiola, a Bodysex instructor from Mexico posted a wonderful question to Betty and Carlin: Do you consider sexual satisfaction and sexual pleasure to be different constructs, and why? Querida Fabiola, Thanks for a wonderful inquiry looking at satisfaction and...

This book takes another look at this most marvelous aspect of humanity-our sexuality-from a synthesis of ancient Taoist-Hindu wisdom

Sep 21, 2016 | Testimonials

“This book takes another look at this most marvelous aspect of humanity-our sexuality-from a synthesis of ancient Taoist-Hindu wisdom and modern medical knowledge that together reveal a knowledgeable practice of our sexuality is just as important as diet and regular...