sexual exhaustion is not a wacko tea party conspiracy

Jan 7, 2018 | From the Author

OK, I get it. When it comes to sex, clergy and tea party wackos are not reliable sources of expert advice; nevertheless, the issue of sexual exhaustion deserves serious, open-minded consideration. If you don’t invest much credence either in millennia of Taoist and...

Sex and hair loss?

Aug 7, 2017 | Misc

I received an interesting question regarding sex-edging orgasms and accelerated hair loss. Here is some info from the web: There is a direct correlation between sexual activity and testosterone levels in the blood. However, the DHT and 5-alpha reductase levels have...

Ways to ratchet up sexual energy

Feb 27, 2017 | From the Author

There are those times every month when I get hot flashes. I’m not talking about those uncomfortable body temperature spikes often attributable to menopause which I, as a sexagenarian, fortunately do not experience. No, in this case I’m referring to feeling downright...

Sexual satisfaction and pleasure: different bedfellows?

Oct 16, 2016 | From the Author

Fabiola, a Bodysex instructor from Mexico posted a wonderful question to Betty and Carlin: Do you consider sexual satisfaction and sexual pleasure to be different constructs, and why? Querida Fabiola, Thanks for a wonderful inquiry looking at satisfaction and...

Sexual re-creation

Sep 11, 2016 | Testimonials

Sexual energy is creation in so many amazing forms: Procreation, Recreation, Re-creation. It’s the ultimate creative energy that can be mindfully cultivated to produce loving relationships including love of self. I am immensely happy that you initiated this Meetup...

Sexual re-creation

Sep 11, 2016 | From the Author

Sexual energy is creation in so many amazing forms: Procreation, Recreation, Re-creation. It’s the ultimate creative energy that can be mindfully cultivated to produce loving relationships including love of self. I am immensely happy that you initiated this Meetup...

Intimacy before an athletic event

Aug 15, 2016 | Testimonials

Greetings Courtney(reporter for Bustle Magazine), I’m Dr. William Kolbe, author of “The Rejuvenating Power of Masturbation” (www.therpom.com ). First, let’s come to terms with ‘intimacy’ which I refer to as solo and paired sexual activity. That having been said,...

I feel energized and healed

May 16, 2016 | Testimonials

Dear Dr. Kolbe, What a great read.  Thanks for making it available. I first encountered this topic in my twenties with Mantak Chia’s book. But semen retention was a difficult task back then! Now in my fifties and facing down a very difficult cancer, this process...

Experiencing a boost in health and healing

May 15, 2016 | Testimonials

“This is a very interesting topic to me.  I believe my practices so far of long masturbating sessions without ejaculating have boosted my health tremendously.  It feels like I can draw the energy into me and use it for healing.  I have been looking for...